No Where to Hide

Sunday, February 7, 2010

Why hide?! I have been out to almost all of my friends. If you guys remembered, Mr. P and I went on the Cameron trip. Tonnes of picture were taken with many thanks to William. The thing is, last week when I told lingling to save my reports into a pendrive, he decided to put the photos in there too. Me not noticing it, I passed the thumbdrive to my coursemates. I guess everyone would be able to predict what would happen. They looked through my stash of photos WITHOUT my permission. What a nice morning surprise when suddenly Patrick came over and we talked about it.

In cantonese...

Pat: Did you know everyone is talking about you and your bf?! They saw all the photos in your pendrive.
Bear: hah?! What photo?!
Pat: You and the guy. They say you 2 so close. Touching touching... why you put those pictures there?
Bear: I didn't put them there la. But OMG! I am a celebrity now!
Pat: =.="
Bear: Aiyah.... Don't care la! I not scared of them. Besides, many people know liao la. Add a few more person oso nothing lu...
Pat: You not scared that something will happen? Like when you go find work next time. You not scared they won't hire you because you are gay?!
Bear: Scared for?! Not like I am a murderer on the lose.
Pat: No lah~ The society here is still very narrow-minded wor...
Bear: You think I care about those numb-skull?! They can remain stupid as they are coz I don't give a damn about them. I am sure there are some if not many that do not care of my sexuality. The others can rot in their own little boxed thinking.
Pat: Malaysia is like that lah~
Bear: And that is why we are not progressing fast enough. People here constantly making little little things as big issues. They would rather use their time to create controversy than to think of what is best for the nation. What a nice wonderful country.
Pat: yeah...





~There is nothing to fear when one is assure of what they want~

15 comments:

pikey said...

My bad :(

Ultraman Jino said...

i didn't realize friends can be so supportive to plu. 90% knows who i am and luckily none of them alienate or talk bad in front of me. it's a relief. the toughest part of coming out is not to friends but to parents. again luckily i've passed those hard times. i like your attitude!




[Jino] - A man's not a man unless he knows how to shoot

Medie007 said...

sometimes it's best to stay under the radar.

William said...

Did any comment about my art direction? :P

manglish said...

admire your guts hahaha

Mark said...

Bearx2, admire your courage but just be careful ya ;)

Takashi said...

i dont really have a problem with these.. and even friends who's like commented why am i gay or something..

Bravebear said...

Pikey, it's okay. I don't give a damn about what they think.

Jino, coming out to mum is not easy for me too :p

Medie, there is always a sometimes for everything :p

William, LOL! Those people know not how to appreciate art. hahahaha!

manglish, :p

Mark, okies! =)

Takashi, certain people are constantly making a fuss out of things that have nothing to do with them. LOL!

Gratitude said...

Brave Bear! Roars!

foongpc said...

Can I see those photos too? LOL!

foongpc said...

Hey, I thought my blog post What Other People Think fits in with this topic nicely, haha! : )

Emo-Happiness said...

Understood your feeling.. Once, I wrongly switched on gay porn in front of my colleague.. Felt miserable..

No worries. It will pass..

count a said...

it's such a wonderful thing to have friends like that:)

there's many open minded people out there that don't mind hiring us^^

C'est la vie said...

Take care of yourself dear. It's never a good thing to too expose about yourself. It really brings some bad sides.

arun raj said...

my jaw just dropped