The Freedom of Love

Tuesday, December 4, 2018

The eagle from the nearby forest reserve flew around my housing area and the bird call can be heard clearly.

A thought came to me. 

To love someone is to set him free like an eagle soaring in the sky, unleashing his full potential and be proud of it. Be indomitable. 

And not keeping him with a leash, not able to see the world, wither and grow old in a cage of love.


Law of Attraction

Wednesday, November 28, 2018

I remember how I never attracted anyone on certain well known gay app. A certain movie reminded me that humans are like animals. We workout to put on muscles. We dress nicely to look good. Style our hair to look stylish. All we do is to look good not just for ourselves, but could be to look presentable and not to humiliate the closest people we consider important to us. In the animal kingdom, most often the male is the on doing the work of attracting the female. Lion with it's mane. Fighting fish and guppies with their colourful fins. Biggest and strongest of the alpha male wins the pack or pride through display of strength and power. 

Humans are no different. Of course we don't dictate how a gay man should be. But the fact remains that big muscular and good looking guys will always attract more potential mate. Same goes with being wealthy and powerful. Some may prefer the cute and twinky ones but in my experience, not many actually. How to market yourself is a choice. I find it ridiculous when people complain how they are unable to attract other guys. If your looks don't work, work your mind and body. Some people enjoy a good communicator with some humour. If it doesn't work, you gotta put in the hard work and flaunt that sexy body.

Between a Rock and a Hard Place

Tuesday, November 27, 2018

Over the past few weeks, I have heard stories of how family disputes carried from previous generations to current ones; gossip among friends on how friend of friends taking advantage of each other, and of course I have my fair share of family stories too- misunderstanding between siblings and parents.

All because on the concerns of money. 

Money can make the world go round and it can also cut the deepest blood bonds. When I am in a situation dealing monetary issues with friends, family and love one, I always try to remind myself to tread very carefully and with enough clarity to avoid any misunderstandings. 

If not, the consequences can put myself between a rock and a hard place.